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How Publishing Is Like Giving Birth. And Also Not.

December 23, 2009 by becca

Like: There’s this beautiful new thing, and I want everyone to see it.

Not Like: I invite a whole lot more people to come around at delivery when it’s a book.
Like: There’s that gasp of surprise and delight to see it whole and shiny.

Not Like: Much less mess.
Like: I find myself telling people all kinds of details they SO don’t care about.

Not Like: Nobody really even pretends to be interested*.
Like: I just know someday, someone is going to say mean things about it. And it will hurt.

Not Like: I don’t have to listen to critics. I can pretend they don’t exist. (But bullies are real. Forever.)
Like: There will be mistakes, and I might be embarrassed.

Not Like: They’re all MY mistakes. (Worse, right?)
Like: I love this new thing.

Not Like: It doesn’t need me – my work is done.
Like: It still keeps me up at night.

Not Like: I can’t rock it back to sleep.
Like: I find myself in there, when I peer. (Does anyone else love that word? Peer. Try it. Peer. Mmm.)

Not Like: Chances aren’t good that it will take care of me when I’m old.

*This is a complete lie. Everyone is interested. Or pretending to be. And that is fun, fun.
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(6) Comments for this blog

  1. L.T. Elliot
    December 23, 2009

    I do love the word "peer." It's an excellent word.
    BTW, I'm TOTALLY interested. Share details! Give me the goods! Dish! Dish! =]

  2. L.T. Elliot
    December 23, 2009

    I do love the word "peer." It's an excellent word.
    BTW, I'm TOTALLY interested. Share details! Give me the goods! Dish! Dish! =]

  3. annie valentine
    December 23, 2009

    Hey, I'm always interested in the details as well. Merry Christmas my friend, Jesus and I love you!

  4. annie valentine
    December 23, 2009

    Hey, I'm always interested in the details as well. Merry Christmas my friend, Jesus and I love you!

  5. M. Gray
    December 26, 2009

    Keeping you up at night. YES. SO true for both!! Love the list!

  6. M. Gray
    December 26, 2009

    Keeping you up at night. YES. SO true for both!! Love the list!

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